If You Haven't Got Anything Nice To Say: Shut up!

Hmm. Yesterday, I would have liked to have ripped a guy a new ***hole, but I generously (and miraculously) controlled myself. There was kind of a "situation" on a support group yesterday. Support groups exist to offer support, not to preach YOUR point of view...it takes just a little bit of tact, even the smallest bit of tact to get your point across. I tried and I mean I REALLY tried to give the person the benefit of the doubt that the harsh effect of what this person was saying was due to the email format. BUT...I'm getting sick and tired of giving people the benefit of the doubt when they flat out don't deserve it. And if someone touches a hyper-sensitive, concerned, trying-to-do-the-best-thing-for-my-kid-at-Christmas Mom,I get aggressive...especially after reading Val's post about Gage:((. Think it was a Venus - Mars thing.

Anyway, Mavi, my twelve year old music pimpette told me to download the new Katy Perry song...love it!

Seen on bendecho

Katy Perry - Hot N Cold Lyrics

You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
Yeah you, PMS
Like a bitch
I would know

And you over think
Always speak
Critically

I should know
That you’re no good for me

{CHORUS}
Cause you’re hot then you’re cold
You’re yes then you’re no
You’re in then you’re out
You’re up then you’re down
You’re wrong when it’s right
It’s black and it’s white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(you) You don’t really want to stay, no
(but you) But you don’t really want to go-o
You’re hot then you’re cold
You’re yes then you’re no
You’re in then you’re out
You’re up then you’re down

We used to be
Just like twins
So in sync
The same energy
Now’s a dead battery
Used to laugh bout nothing
Now your plain boring

I should know that
you’re not gonna change

{CHORUS}

Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bi-polar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can’t get off this ride

You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes

{CHORUS}