Saturday, December 13, 2008

If You Haven't Got Anything Nice To Say: Shut up!

Hmm. Yesterday, I would have liked to have ripped a guy a new ***hole, but I generously (and miraculously) controlled myself. There was kind of a "situation" on a support group yesterday. Support groups exist to offer support, not to preach YOUR point of view...it takes just a little bit of tact, even the smallest bit of tact to get your point across. I tried and I mean I REALLY tried to give the person the benefit of the doubt that the harsh effect of what this person was saying was due to the email format. BUT...I'm getting sick and tired of giving people the benefit of the doubt when they flat out don't deserve it. And if someone touches a hyper-sensitive, concerned, trying-to-do-the-best-thing-for-my-kid-at-Christmas Mom,I get aggressive...especially after reading Val's post about Gage:((. Think it was a Venus - Mars thing.

Anyway, Mavi, my twelve year old music pimpette told me to download the new Katy Perry song...love it!

Seen on bendecho

Katy Perry - Hot N Cold Lyrics

You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
Yeah you, PMS
Like a bitch
I would know

And you over think
Always speak
Critically

I should know
That you’re no good for me

{CHORUS}
Cause you’re hot then you’re cold
You’re yes then you’re no
You’re in then you’re out
You’re up then you’re down
You’re wrong when it’s right
It’s black and it’s white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(you) You don’t really want to stay, no
(but you) But you don’t really want to go-o
You’re hot then you’re cold
You’re yes then you’re no
You’re in then you’re out
You’re up then you’re down

We used to be
Just like twins
So in sync
The same energy
Now’s a dead battery
Used to laugh bout nothing
Now your plain boring

I should know that
you’re not gonna change

{CHORUS}

Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bi-polar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can’t get off this ride

You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes

{CHORUS}

8 comments:

Drew's Mom said...

Amen!!!

Jodi Cutler Del Dottore said...

*smile* and a high five right back atcha!!!

Jodi Cutler Del Dottore said...

Hi Mishka,
Val's situation is different than what I was referring to, and Val's situation is extremely painful...going to check out your blog...Hugs, Jodi

Candy said...

Love that song too! You should check out http://www.youtube.com/user/xcrippledhope this HOH guy does songs in ASL and Hot n cold is one of em.

Ahh, holidays, stress, and stoopid people we all have to deal with...turn that AMP up and go with the flow...

;)

Anonymous said...

Make sure not to let the stoopid people to steal your parking spot!

All you have to be a b*tch *IF* someone is doing something stoopid to you!

;-)

White Ghost

Jodi Cutler Del Dottore said...

Nooooooooooo problem being a bitch on this blog:)) And I've been known to crank it up! Ho Ho Ho!

mishkazena said...

*shaking head* some people are incredibly insensitive to other people's feelings, thinking it's their rights to impose their beliefs and opinions on others. You are right as that kind of approach doesn't belong in a support system. Hopefully that person will see the light, but some people see things black and white.

By the way, that's a terrific support group. Others are so fortunate that so many members are committed to the support group

Jodi Cutler Del Dottore said...

Hiya Mishka...Ain't that the truth!